tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.comments2014-05-26T10:28:44.056-07:00Logic of a Crazy Pagan Cat Ladybadbadkittyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07900149257212537997noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.post-67083672197446838982014-05-26T10:28:44.056-07:002014-05-26T10:28:44.056-07:00Mara do you have a link to your blog? I am afraid ...Mara do you have a link to your blog? I am afraid I have not written anything here in a while and did not see your comments til now. I apologize for that. (((((((((HUGS))))))))) for you and Blessings as well. badbadkittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07900149257212537997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.post-63048400252767464722014-04-14T06:57:21.950-07:002014-04-14T06:57:21.950-07:00I never gotten along with my mom either. I never gotten along with my mom either. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.post-44338082108203205132014-04-14T06:55:53.806-07:002014-04-14T06:55:53.806-07:00I will write a post about you and link you to my b...I will write a post about you and link you to my blog! :DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.post-18673906893230962602014-04-14T06:54:06.548-07:002014-04-14T06:54:06.548-07:00Dear Bad Bad Kitty,
Girl, do I have a story to te...Dear Bad Bad Kitty,<br /><br />Girl, do I have a story to tell you! I mean, speaking of MERRY MEET am I glad I have found you!!! <br /><br />Dear sister, my name is Mara, I am writing from Puerto Rico. I have been having trouble logging into my blog crazywicca.blogspot.com, so I typed in Google: crazy wicca blogspot and I FOUND YOU!<br /><br />And I found me finding you. :)<br /><br />My mother too passed away last November. Respecting her christian wishes, may she rest in peace but according to my side of the spectrum I do hope she has happy travels.<br /><br />My dear sister, I also have to authorize my daughter to endure an operation in her spine. She has scoliosis. I am having a bit of trouble reading throughout your whole post for emotional reasons. I hope you get the picture and share my thrill!<br /><br />Please do visit my site. I will sure be back here! My site is mostly in Spanish so, never mind, I'll be visiting again!<br /><br />Can't let go of you now! :D <br /><br />MERRY MEET )o(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.post-33967887857708907282013-12-05T22:06:04.068-08:002013-12-05T22:06:04.068-08:00I'd also like to add that one of my verificati...I'd also like to add that one of my verification words to post that was "valueme." There's no way that was a coincidence. ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.post-43203207281915166162013-12-05T22:04:56.399-08:002013-12-05T22:04:56.399-08:00I found your blog via Pinterest. As a teen and in ...I found your blog via Pinterest. As a teen and in my early 20's I couldn't be alone. I couldn't feel fulfilled or at times even function if I wasn't looking for a man, dating a man, married to a man, or breaking up with a man. But I found a wonderful husband and life was...perfect. Then after 9 years together he died in a car accident. For the first time in my life at the age of 32 I was alione. Really, really alone. And now 7 years have gone by and I still love being really, really alone. My life, my decisions, my goals are all mine. My life revolves around me not some man that I am trying to keep happy. It's freedom. Would I take my husband back in an instant? Of course I would. But my life wouldn't revolve around him. Do I want to stay alone forever? No to that as well. I might meet someone tomorrow. This is why I cherish this time alone. Ladies, take time to live life without worrying about men. Give this gift to yourself. I didn't choose to be single, but the lessons I have learned from it has made me a better person. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.post-38168964549184561592013-09-30T09:48:14.484-07:002013-09-30T09:48:14.484-07:00Thanks it means a lot to me for you to say that. Thanks it means a lot to me for you to say that. badbadkittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07900149257212537997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.post-46121122888360627802013-09-28T08:39:18.650-07:002013-09-28T08:39:18.650-07:00You are amazing. *hugs*
I'm sorry about your ...You are amazing. *hugs*<br /><br />I'm sorry about your mother. <br /><br />You are a fantastic mother and I'm glad to know you and have seen it first hand many years ago. B is lucky to have you, and I bet you are her heroine too. ;)Juggling Resourceshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09382130435806376479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.post-59786575681002806672013-02-19T19:53:58.567-08:002013-02-19T19:53:58.567-08:00Honestly, I have to say that this video (well much...Honestly, I have to say that this video (well much like most media outlets today) did not stay neutral in the presentation of the story. It just appeared to be an opportunity to bash as far as I am concerned. They are not even worth me getting upset at because they were all so foolish in their display of their ignorance.Shanta L.E.https://www.blogger.com/profile/08981418263049740103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.post-61686132672042682412013-02-15T02:55:14.863-08:002013-02-15T02:55:14.863-08:00No offense taken. It simply seemed by the way it w...No offense taken. It simply seemed by the way it was written that was what you were doing and in so I found it humorous. As a writer I have to expect that not everyone is going to critique what I write in a positive way, and I thought you were missing the point. No worries. Yes I have had some fabulous sex without being in a relationship, and some within them as well. We are all different, and I wish you luck in finding something that works for you.badbadkittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07900149257212537997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.post-54087115036704444772013-02-14T23:20:14.951-08:002013-02-14T23:20:14.951-08:00I was merely stating that PART of the happiness yo...I was merely stating that PART of the happiness you find in coupledom was probably related to more frequent access to the delightful endorphin rush associated with regular sex. I was in no way judging you for your sexual choices. I have no idea what your sex life consists of. I was speaking in terms of what MY experiences were with it and MY feelings on the difference between sex with a stranger and sex with someone I am comfortable with. I think you took my comment FAR too personally, as it was not directed at you. I can only speak of my experiences. My experiences are the only ones I would know anything about really. Studies have shown that 1)sex stimulates endorphine production in the brain 2)masturbation lacks the energy connection one has when having sex with a partner 3)that connection is far more easily achieved with someone you know well and have a regular sex life with. After that, I went on to state what my experiences were. I'm not sure exactly how you misinterpreted that as a judgement on you, but it wasn't and I'm sorry if I offended you. If you have managed to achieve that sort of connection with someone sexually that you weren't that familiar with, I'm impressed, to be honest. And perhaps a touch jealous. :) My issue with strangers has unfortunately caused me to be an easier target for "sex with the ex". 9 times out of 10, that has turned out sketchy, as I believe it probably does for most people. But when I left my comment, I couldn't have possibly had any idea what sort of sex life you might lead. That would make it impossible for me to pass judgement on your sexual preferences, now wouldn't it? Hence, my comment was not intended to pass judgement on anyone. The only thing I could be sure of from your blog was that you were single. Once again, sorry if you misinterpreted my comment and were offended by it. In no way was that my intent.Xyolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01812814934464754683noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.post-26537793181237884562013-02-14T09:07:11.648-08:002013-02-14T09:07:11.648-08:00yes the point I was trying to make more than anyth...yes the point I was trying to make more than anything is not to judge other women on the choices of lifestyle they make. Which make it all the more interesting that the first comment seems to be judging me on sexual choices that she seems to think she knows about. Yes it is true sex does not always go along with marriage or being coupled that was a great point EvolvingSoulBody!badbadkittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07900149257212537997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.post-81936620432501322812013-02-14T07:46:56.594-08:002013-02-14T07:46:56.594-08:00Actually being coupled up might not mean that you ...Actually being coupled up might not mean that you have easy access to sex has I have experienced. I really enjoyed this piece and also agree that we tend to look down upon people who want to be coupled up making claims that they don't know how to be alone, judge couples who want to define their relationship on their own terms, and the list goes on and on--see a pattern? The point is, we fail to support each other no matter what the choices may be. Also, the whole thing of looking down on a woman or anyone who wants to be in coupledom feeds into the whole myth of independence. We are also even afraid to get too close because goddess forbid it is codependency (yet aren't we born to be codependent to some extent?) Anyway really great piece and something we should all keep in mind. Shanta L.E.https://www.blogger.com/profile/08981418263049740103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.post-77028494810252922262013-02-14T05:39:56.960-08:002013-02-14T05:39:56.960-08:00Oh also my most recent heartbreak over a man I am ...Oh also my most recent heartbreak over a man I am still deeply in love with I have not had sex with at all. Do not make assumptions that because i like sex that is all I need from a man.badbadkittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07900149257212537997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.post-72711725607913063982013-02-14T05:35:33.877-08:002013-02-14T05:35:33.877-08:00I do love sex but I can enjoy it if its with a str...I do love sex but I can enjoy it if its with a stranger or not. I know the difference between intimate sex with a partner you love and share with, and sex with a fling or a friend. I have enjoyed both and neither felt weird to me or wrong. If it feels wrong for you than no you probably should not do it. That being said do not put down others who enjoy it or judge them for it. That is their choice. That connection as you speak of can make sex fantastic but I have also had fantastic sex without that connection its just different for me but still wonderful.badbadkittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07900149257212537997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.post-42025944841376363702013-02-13T18:49:54.101-08:002013-02-13T18:49:54.101-08:00I hope that you realize that there is a distinct l...I hope that you realize that there is a distinct likelihood that part of the reason that you are more relaxed and secure in a partnership situation is due to regular access to sex. I'm not being perverse, just honest. It has been proven that masturbation cannot completely replace sex in the department of health benefits. One more example of the power of human touch and connection. It has also been proven that regular one night stands can't replace regular sex with a steady partner either. This makes complete sense to me. I've slept with someone I didn't know well once in my life, a few years ago, to alleviate the pressure to do it I was getting from both my sister and a good friend of mine. The thought it would be liberating for me, so to speak. It wasn't. It felt all wrong. I don't sleep with strangers and I don't date people that I haven't known for awhile. I'm glad that I have a tendency to be a bit more discerning in my choice of sexual partners. You can't really connect on a deep level to a stranger that you met in bar! That connection is part of what makes sex good for you. I will stick to my "outdated" morals, thank you. They work very well for me. I, too, tend to be happier if I have a strong, hard-working man of my own to take care of. I'm glad I got over settling for remedial pussies. There are so many out there! But I have a pussy, I don't need another! :DXyolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01812814934464754683noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.post-12607133518433177692012-06-27T19:29:16.906-07:002012-06-27T19:29:16.906-07:00*hugs and much love* I know there is nothing anyon...*hugs and much love* I know there is nothing anyone can say. But I'm here as support for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.post-9877545898402606552012-06-17T14:19:01.504-07:002012-06-17T14:19:01.504-07:00It is just another lesson learned, and from it I a...It is just another lesson learned, and from it I am spring anew again as we do over and over and over!!!badbadkittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07900149257212537997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.post-16997907901106082102012-06-05T18:23:40.072-07:002012-06-05T18:23:40.072-07:00Oh honey. I'm sorry you went through that. I&#...Oh honey. I'm sorry you went through that. I'm very glad that you were able to turn it around and good things are happening again for you. *hugs*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.post-41986614071411658252012-01-04T18:51:44.824-08:002012-01-04T18:51:44.824-08:00Thanks Jess!Thanks Jess!badbadkittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07900149257212537997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.post-36490622411585996162012-01-04T18:47:54.593-08:002012-01-04T18:47:54.593-08:00*hugs tight* Yay for so much lost weight and passi...*hugs tight* Yay for so much lost weight and passing math! <br /><br />I'm sorry it was so rough. I hope that 2012 is much kinder to you. <br /><br />JessJuggling Resourceshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09382130435806376479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2040654401682769210.post-10569364695601262762011-08-28T15:43:40.235-07:002011-08-28T15:43:40.235-07:00Congrats on the 1/2 lb lost! anything is better th...Congrats on the 1/2 lb lost! anything is better than gaining! Yes I too need to start writing again and not worry if it makes sense to anyone but me. I miss writing but I don't know where to start; will get started sonn once life settles down again...too busy with work at the moment and other crazy things.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com