So lately I have been having the pity party vibe going on in
my head. Woe is me and all that. Why you ask? Well because my latest
relationship fell through in a very odd way (for another post), and finances
are a mess due to the mistake of another (also for another post). So I have spent most of my time whining to
some of my friends, and the rest of the time whining to myself. Yes everyone deserves their whine in the
sun….wait or is that wine in the moonlight?
Hmmmmmm….well the point is we all need to have some time to heal, and I
do have a lot of past where I have needed to heal. I guess that is the thing I
am so sick of healing.
Than again wouldn’t it be nice for everything to be perfect
in my life. HAHAHA! The grass is always greener is it not? I am always looking
at the lives I would like to have (also for another post), and never just being
happy with the life that has been given to me. I could say, “What is there to
be happy about?” and I would have to answer, “I am not a starving child in
Africa.” The fact is unless you are a child starving in Africa your pretty much
doing OK.
Always look on the bright side of life. We like to stick out
our tongue at that cliché and tell it go where the sun does not shine. The
truth is we need some of these clichés to keep us on track and living out lives
in a manner of hope, and appreciation.
I do after all have things to be thankful for. I have my daughter, a
place to live (amazingly), my crazy pets, my crazier friends, and a pair of
Hello Kitty slippers.
So this all being said I am going to give a little to charity
this holiday season. I may not have much but there is always someone worse off.
So make sure to give someone else a bit of hope this year, and if possible
remember to do such things all year long from time to time.
The grass really is
not any greener for anyone else, and in fact they got their own problems. We
all need to get more fertilizer.
